Wednesday

Does Your Ex Husband Come Back To Haunt You?

Dang!!  I thought I was rid of the jerk.   We divorced over 20 years ago and I have since remarried and have been happily married for 17 years now.

About 13 years ago, my prsent Husband went to the bank to get a loan for a hunting camp in Warren, Pennsylvania that we wanted to buy.     He has always, always had GREAT credit.... but this time there was an outstanding bill on a Sears credit card.   The card was traced to me.       I had no idea I even still had a Sears credit card.    

Come to find out,... my ex and his then present wife ran up a huge bill on the joint account Sears card.    Sears was kind enough to look into the matter and found I had NOTHING to do with the charges and took me off completely.    Thank you SEARS!!

We bought our camp without a hitch once my name was cleared of all charges.

Fast forward to just a couple of days ago.   

I get a call on the phone.  Some company wants to know if I know where W-----m  K---y is and if I could get in touch with him.    I said I don't know who that is..... Well not being a good liar....  They got it out of me that it is my Butt-hole ex and they are looking for him.

I totally flew off the handle... I was like a raving lunatic!!  WTHeck do you people think I would be in touch with someone who was a sneaky, cheating,.. SOB!!   Do you think he didn't take from me as much $$$ as he could and hide it.   My ex thinks I have no idea what he did.   I may be blonde, but I ain't stupid.    I just chose to walk away and better my life.

After I yelled the above words... the guy on the phone had the nerve to ask me if I was ready to listen to him now
WTHeck  Was this guy DEAF!  I said again.... I have no idea where he is and I also told him I don't care what he did.   If I knew where he lived (which I don't) I would give them everything I knew.

He knew he would never get a word in edgewise with me and hung up on me.  The Nerve Of Him!!

Whew!!! LOL   Now that I have that off my chest....  How are you all doing?

After all that, I am headed to take a nice relaxing mud Bath

55 comments:

  1. Your ex sure sounds like a jerk! Glad you were able to move on with your life. Hopefully he won't haunt you any more.

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    1. I am so glad to be rid of him Lisa... you just have no idea.

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  2. Good for you for going off on the guy on the phone. That company had no right to call you and ask you about your ex after all of these years. Hire a PI for God's sake if it's that important to them!!!

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    1. They just want a cheap way to find him and I would be it if I knew where he was..... and I don't care to find out.

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  3. Whew, remind me to never get on your bad side lol. This make me very thankful I don't have any exes!

    And what great customer service to Sears for getting you cleared. Having that ding on your credit would have sucked if they didn't fix it!

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    1. LOL Theresa,
      Sorry, I probably shouldn't have ranted so much... I just wanted to get it off my chest.

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  4. I'm so glad Sears was reasonable and took you off. Those first marriages are often the first mistaken impulse of an undisciplined heart. Quote from Dickens.

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    1. You know Manzi.... My Mom and Dad never liked him and didn't want me to marry him. I should have listened.

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  5. Yeah some douchebag stole my credit card number and put $4000 bucks on it, but they knew it wasn't me and got rid of it. Those bill collectors are nothing but a-holes, cheap a-holes trying to go through you.

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    1. Oh my gosh Pat. Sorry to hear you had your credit card taken and used. Thank goodness they took care of it... I would have about pooped my pants.

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  6. Hey Terry, first of all that mud bath looks awesome! Thank God, I do not have an worm of an ex husband. I almost married one that would have easily been my ex, if I did...So glad that Sears came through for you. I hope your ex is done haunting you for a while!

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    1. Lucky you Kristi that you didn't marry that worm. Thanks and I hope I don't have to deal with this again....
      EVER!

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  7. Okay I thought gee that water is dirty! lol I am so very very sorry that you had all that past stuff haunt you in the present. My past husband doesn't haunt me - lol I don't have one - but husband two can get on my nerves. hehe
    Love, sandie

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    1. Sandie,
      So you are a widow or did he pass after you divorced? I think all Husbands can get on our nerves at one time or another.

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  8. Oh wow, glad Sears was on your side. I could use a relaxing mud bath right now.

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    1. Sears was very good about the problem. The mud bath was GREAT!!

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  9. OH girl! What a freaking nightmare and to keep coming after you. What are these ppl thinking you guys send Christmas Cards to each other? I mean come only probably only 2% of ppl who divorce stay friendly and keep tabs. Wow .. sorry!

    Glad you got to take a mud bath!

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    1. Why would people that divorce want to be friends anyway? Once I am rid of someone.... good riddance.

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  10. Ouch, what jerk-offs, both the ex and the phone guy. I'm so glad you're out of that situation!

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    1. Jacqueline,
      I would never had guessed that jerk off would come out of your mouth. LOL... You are so funny.

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  11. UGH... had the SAME thing happen last week... haven't seen or heard from my ex in over 6 years... to be frank, I figured he was in jail or dead because he does turn up like a bad penny...but I got a call from the IRS looking for him...I was like...if you can't find him, no one can... LOL and then a call from GMAC about a car they are trying to take back from him... I said, if I could give you an address to take it back at, I would... so give me a flipping break and don't call here again. I have the feeling the bad penny is about to be the nasty thing that crawls out from under a rock, soon. :( Lying, cheating, gambling, alcoholic...visited my parents with me once and stole money out of my MOM'S PURSE...it doesn't get much lower than this p.o.s. whew...that feels better!!! Thanks!!!!

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    1. You think at their age, they would not be still doing the same crap they did when they were young.

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  12. Hi Terry,

    Good grief! What a load of crap. Sears were understanding and demonstrated some class. That guy on the phone needs a kick up the butt. As for your ex, it shows that some folks have no morals. You are well rid of him, my friend.

    Gary

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    1. Hi Gary,
      It is too bad we don't know the morals of the person we marry when we are young..... and a leopard never changes his spots.

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  13. I sympathize. Several years after I divorced my first husband I was called into the payroll office at work. They said my paycheck was being docked by a bank for nonpayment on a loan! It was an account that my ex was supposed to have paid off under the terms of our divorce. I made some calls and discovered that the company had both me and his second wife listed as his wife! It took some doing but fortunately it was a bank that I had a current account with and they checked my records and figured out that a mistake had been made.

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    1. Oh my gosh Linda, To be called in at your place of work. I bet you wanted to choke your ex. Glad to hear it all worked out for you.

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  14. What a jerk!! So glad you're happily married to someone else!!!

    Have a nice day!

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    1. He was a jerk and I am lucky I didn't get AIDS from him.

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  15. I'm sorry you had to go through all that! I don't have an ex, although I've threatened to a time or two. Haha!
    What do you put in your bath water for a mud bath?

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    1. Hi Cheryl,
      Thanks! LOL... you are funny...
      In my bath I use a clay based mud that has magnesium in it.

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  16. Oh my god, I can't believe how rude some people are sometimes. First of all, they must have known that you haven't been associated with that douchebag for almost 20 years and probably went through way more trouble than it was worth to track you down when there was no chance of you knowing (or caring) where is he is. That guy had some set of balls on him, huh?

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    1. Hi Robin,
      Balls he did have!! Not sure why he thought I was still in touch with him. I just hope this is the end of it.

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  17. There is no lengths to which those cockroaches won't go

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    1. So true John... and once a cockroach, always a cockroach.

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  18. This must be a nightmare. While I was never married to my son's biological father, he recently kinda resurfaced (he hasn't even been in my son's life for around 11 years and he's just 13). He's been sending people with messages to get back to me that he's got this and that planned. I try not to let it bother me because I know he's full of you know what.

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    1. What does he think... you want him back or something. I just can't believe some of these guys. They think they are Gods gift to women.

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  19. Telling those blood suckers off is the way to be

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    1. Thanks... I would do it again too!

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  20. I was never married to my son's father but my son is 13 and his father hasn't seen him since he was 2. Recently his father has been sending messages to me after 11 years through other people that he's going to do this or that to see his son. He has no intention on seeing his son, he just wants to bother me. And I never kept his son from him in the first place, he's a deadbeat dad voluntarily.

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    1. I don't know how guys can just throw away thier kids like that. Your son probably doesn't want to see him anyway

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  21. That stinks they your name still gets associated with his, I'm sorry to hear it. :(

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    1. I guess I should have been more careful when I married him. Young and dumb is what I was.

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  22. Oh how terribley stressful!! I truly hope that is the last you hear of your ex. Hopefully karma will take care of that!

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    1. I hope Karma comes back to bite him in the rear....

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  23. You poor thing! How awful! I'm glad Sears gave you a break! I so would have wanted to know what he did to have that guy call you. I'm always too curious. So much so that it gets me in trouble sometimes.

    I'm not divorced, but I did have a boyfriend before that loved playing with my emotions. We went out for two years. It was pretty serious. Then I went away for school, and he didn't break things off at all. He just stated seeing someone else, and was there when I came home. His family loved me, which made things hard as well. It was a roller coaster of a relationship after that. At that time I was stupid. I didn't know weather to fight for him, or drop him on his face. I should have dropped him on his face hard.

    My sister-in-law is divorced. She hates the town she lives in, but can't move because her ex has rights to their child to. He didn't pay childcare at the school, so they wouldn't release my nephew's report card to her. They wouldn't deal with her much at all. :(

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    1. Sears was GREAT Alissa. I have no idea what he did, but I would bet he ran out and didn't pay some bills.

      You are so lucky you didn't marry that jerk

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  24. That is too funny. Some woman called my cell phone asking for someone with my ex-husband's name. We have been divorced since 2005. It didn't even occur to me that she was looking for HIM. I was just stymied. Then she asked for him by his first and last name. I was shocked. I said, "That is my EX-husband."

    She was then shocked. She said, "Oh." She hung up. I have no idea who that woman was.

    Hearing your story makes me think that you NEVER actually get rid of them. Gah. Glad you got Sears to clear that mess up!

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    1. LOL I wonder if it was one of his Girlfriends checking up on him. Maybe he had your number somewhere and she found it.

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  25. What a nightmare. I'm so sorry for your stress because of that jerk. You shouldn't have to keep paying a price for one mistake (marrying him), which, of course, you didn't know was a mistake at the time.

    My ex husband is dead. But he does still haunt me. Do they ever go away?!

    Hang tough.

    xoRobyn

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    1. Robyn,
      Jerk he is.... and has been married twice since me. And.... no, I don't think they EVER go away.

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  26. Funny post but on a serious note, I would order a credit report because you don't know if he has been using your address and name in other schemes.

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    1. That is a good idea... but we have since had a credit report done and so far, so good. He did call my Daughter a few years ago wanting her kids social. Thank Goodness she didn't give it to him. Who knows what he wanted it for.

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  27. What a horrible thing to go through. What goes around comes around -- it just seems like these type of people get away with so much for so long.

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  28. Some people just deserve to be donated to scientific research!! Walking away sounded like the best thing you ever did so congratulations and well done!! Sorry I haven't visited much lately - being on the road is great for travel stories, but not so good for visiting blogs ...

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  29. Wow, the nerve of some people! But on the other hand that mud bath does look mighty relaxing! :)

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